Category: I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me
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I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me Pt: 10 Speaking Up For Yourself
A couple months back, I was feeling all of the feels and was so deeply in my own head, it began to affect me in ways I didn’t expect. It took some time for me to realize or understand that I was in fact very anxious about this situation and after a couple of chats […]
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I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me Pt 9: About Money
One of the frustrating parts of adulting, is managing your finances, at least for me- it’s definitely NOT the sexy part and for the most part as a single parent, I find it frustrating to not have as much expendable cash at the end of each month to “make it rain” with. So, during lockdown, […]
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I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me Pt 8: Intimacy
Let’s talk intimacy, but not the kind you’re used to hearing about. As I’ve slowly began to lightly dip my toe back into the dating game ( and I mean lightly ), it has gotten me thinking about the foundational things I am looking for. One of those things is; intimacy, real connective intimacy. This […]
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I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me About Pt 8: People Pleasing
I’ve touched on this subject lightly in the past, but I wanted to dig a bit deeper for myself. This week on the blog, I discuss what I wish someone would have to told me about people pleasing. Have a read. People pleasing hides the real you. Setting boundaries will be tough: I’m that person, […]
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I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me: Pt 7 Mental Health
When I began this series, I suppose this should have been one of the 1st posts, but it didn’t work out that way. In some aspects this series came about on a whim and the subject matter varies, but it’s no secret that we have had our fair share of experiences when it comes to […]
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I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me About Pt 6: Soul Mates
It’s engrained in us from a young age, the Prince and the princess find each other and stroll off into the sunset. The idea is lovely. Roses and petals maybe even some glitter and fireworks. Or like others claim, a jolt to the chest or electricity. But is that really how it works? Or is […]
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I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me Pt 4: Masculinity
Many many week’s back, I wrote a blog post regarding the idea of women texting each other when they got home, as a way to let your friends and family know that you got home safely. And my thoughts on this was the fact that the steps to remain safe are placed on women, when […]
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I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me Pt 3: Emotional Cheating
I started watching the show Doctor Foster on Netflix the other day (yes, I am VERY behind), and it got me thinking about the psychological stress people go through when they have been cheated on. The questions, you begin to ask yourself, unpacking and reliving major or even minor events in your life, to see […]
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I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me Pt 2: Vulnerability
I was always shown the stoic, resilient, strong female, they are celebrated in our family (as they most definitely should be), but sometimes I wish I knew about their worries. Their fears, feelings of inadequacies, their challenges. Being pregnant with 16 children and birthing 11 healthy gives you some type of superhuman strength, but maybe […]
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