Tag: blacker healing
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I Used To Be Scared
I used to be distant, Shut down, Keep my feelings to myself,I used to be vague, Aloof,All because I used to be scared,Scared to be my true self,Worried I was unlovable,Terrified to let someone in,All because I used to be scared,But the 180 is real,The shift in my focus,Knowing my worth, What I bring to…
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Silent Betrayal
It’s an interesting dichotomy, When your body is slowly failing you, Feeling like an invisible number in a huge cog, Watching and waiting for your turn to be seen, Hoping it hasn’t all been for nothing, Worrying about the results and what’s to come, As people scurry to and fro, seemingly with things to do,…
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How Extreme Independence is my Trauma Response
We can all advocate for the importance of being your own person and being able to do things for yourself, but can you be SO independent- it is actually bad for you? This week on the blog, I share how I came to learn that my independent nature is a trauma response. Have a read…
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My Irrational Thoughts
I’ve begun to recognize a pattern within myself, and despite being able to know that it’s not stemming from actual reality, what I have found is that’s it’s harder and harder for me to stop my mind from spiraling. May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears. Nelson Mandela Typically speaking, I am…